But, we recently slept together (it felt right and was great).But, we are technically not exclusive (meaning, we talked prior to sleeping together and said that we were both able to date others, if we wanted).It's like, you don't want to be turning down other options like a total idiot if he's out there getting his freak on with a bunch of other girls.But is it too soon for you guys to become exclusive?Should I have the “defining the relationship” conversation with him or should I wait and allow things to evolve more? I joined just because I was in a new city, and didn't know how to meet anyone. I trust him and know that he is being honest, but now that we have slept with each other, it makes me feel vulnerable and nervous.I would like to know that he isn’t sleeping with anyone else and won’t be sleeping with anyone else while we are sleeping together.
which wouldn't be a big deal if you had any idea whether or not you're allowed to be hooking up with other people!
This conversation sends the message that the past will stay in the past and you’ve moved on.
I am very happy (and he said that he is happy when he is with me) and like him the more I get to know him.
You can see it there on the horizon – the whole “So where’s this going? The dating game has changed dramatically, and while it used to be as simple as a quick conversation along the lines of “OK, so we like each other, let’s make this official”, there is now a list of new stages in a fledgling relationship that can seem to make things more confusing.
Everything has become a little ill-defined, and I wouldn’t be surprised if you’ve asked yourself these kinds of questions: The early stages of dating should be when you’re having the most fun of all, so don’t let things worry you, because really this is when you should be running through parks holding hands and making slushy PDAs on the tube.